Monday, May 24, 2021

TV: How they can make you just not give a damn

WHO KILLED SARA? NETFLIX slipped in the second season offering about two months after they debuted season one. Is it worth watching?



3 JESS Probably so. The story continues and, as it does, you learn that you never really knew about Sara in season one. But, to be honest, we stopped streaming and realized we just didn't give a damn anymore who killed Sara.

Why?

Lorenzo.

Luis Roberto Guzman created a full bodied character with Lorenzo and you honestly gave a damn about him. He wasn't trying to break the law, he wasn't trying to hurt anyone and he wasn't after revenge. He was a good person who tried to do the right thing throughout season one. In season two, things got more complicated. When trashy Clara's hideous ex-boyfriend broke in, Lorenzo tried to reason with him. Chema instead stabbed him to death. Yet again, Lorenzo had to be the mature one. Yet again. He had to help Clara and Chema bury the body. And then, when a development was going to take place, Chema and he went to move the body, in the rain, and Chema gets a call and bails. Leaving in the only car they took. Lorenzo is left to clean up Chema's mess as usual. Then the brother of Clara's now dead ex-boyfriend shows up and kills Lorenzo in front of Chema. Lorenzo is killed because Chema murdered the guy's brother.

When Lorenzo died, we bailed.

There was no reason for the character to die.

We're reminded of the hideous Joss Whedon (we warned you Buffy fans years and years and years ago). Tara and Willow are a couple. There's finally a same-sex couple on BUFFY. And they're in love. And Tara is killed off. Because there were too many lesbian characters in the cast?

No, because killing off a gay character, putting them in an icebox, is a long standing trope.

WHO KILLED SARA? had two gay characters: Chema and Lorenzo -- two if you want to pretend. There was no need to kill off one. Twelve main characters, tons of supporting ones and the decision is made to kill of Lorenzo?

Years after Amber Benson's Tara was killed off, BUFFY producer Marti Noxon stated killing the character went too far, adding, "And I think that killing Tara was – in retrospect, of all the people, did she have to die?"

 

Killing Amber was a plot device and homophobic. We say the same of killing Lorenzo.

Reality, Eugenio Siller's Chema is not that interesting. Nor is he good looking. Nor is he sympathetic. He's also not 'gay.'

We realize that, right?

Lorenzo is in love with Chema and wants to make a life with him. Despite Chema wanting trashy Clara to carry their child as a surrogate -- despite the fact that Chema once fooled around with Clara. And, in season two, look who's screwing. No, not Kirstie Alley and John Travolta, Chema and Clara. Chema dresses in Lorenzo's clothes and paints on a mustache to seduce the pathetic Chema who does not defend his lover by telling her to take off Lorenzo's clothes. No, he makes out with Clara.

Chema's bi. The only gay character was Lorenzo and he gets killed off. Ridiculous and insulting.

We're back to tokenism. We're back to the days where we have our 'gay' Steven Carrington who's only gay sometimes. (Credit to Al Corely for publicly complaining -- in INTERVIEW with then lover Carly Simon -- about how Steven was being changed). We're back to the days of let's throw in a gay character for spice -- to show how 'progressive' we are -- but let's quickly kill him off so that he can't actualize any dreams or hopes or plans. Lorenzo was a full bodied character and that goes to the actor, not the writers.

There's a scene, for example, in season one, where Lorenzo is objecting to Clara being in their life and Clara's crazy ex and Chema won't grow the hell up and fight for the love he and Lorenzo share. Lorenzo tells him that he knows Chema needs a daddy (yes, Lorenzo was the Daddy in that relationship) but Chema still needs to grow up. With a stare and body language, Lorenzo got across everything the writers and producers had been afraid and too timid to address.

One thing NETFLIX can rightly point to is that it has been a leader on portrayals of sexual orientation (LGBTQ) as well as sex period (the challenged or disable, those with kinks or fetishes, etc -- all have been represented). So we're not going to blame NETFLIX for what took place. But, to be clear, what took place was outrageous and offensive. We will hold the show runners accountable and that especially includes Jose Ignacio Velenzuela.

It really is past time that gay characters stop being used as 'flavor' to spice up otherwise bland offerings and then, once they've spiced things up, be dropped so we can return to the dull and bland. Don't mistake rudimentary plotting for art.

 

 

 

 

 

Ty's Corner

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Our most read feature? It may very well end up Ava and C.I.'s "Media: Gay Rights and Gay Wrongs" from last week. It's already huge.

And it should have been part of a theme edition. We were talking, Ava and C.I. and I, about e-mails two weeks ago. Miles Striker was an issue in the e-mails. They weren't familiar with him. I explained the complaints about him that had come in. They started talking about it and said they could do it, they could even bring in other fetish performers, they could do this and that. They planned to call three friends who are adult entertainers in the gay porn industry for feedback and suggestions. It was going to be a very interesting article.

And it was. This was truly an article about media as they covered videos, stories, etc.

But what the three of us came up with was much more ambitious.

At her site, Rebecca's been covering Twitter male stars. Who pose nude or semi. She's particularly fond of THE GAY GASTON. And what if, we came up with, the guys who work on THIRD evaluated these males? Could we see, for example, why ten men were considered hot?

The ten would be decided by the women of the site.

Marcia and I -- as LGBTQs -- might end up left out and we discussed that with Marcia who was more than okay with that because she loved the idea. Then we were going to do a roundtable on sexuality. For the editorial, Ava and C.I. planned one that would touch on the LGBTQ community in Iraq and on the Iraq sex trade industry which would note the documentary available currently on AMAZON.

It was pretty intricate and involved and there were other components.

I have a piece this edition about KINDLE that was going to run the same edition and Ava, C.I. and I did a book discussion on that. (This ran last week in HILDA'S MIX instead.)

When Sunday ended, only Ava and C.I.'s piece was written (they wrote it from five a.m. to ten a.m. Sunday). We had recorded the discussion and needed to transcribe that. The women had picked 10 men that they considered hot.

The stumbling block?

The men looking at the photos of the ten guys. Jim joked and joked. He can do a Jim's World feature if he wants to address whether this was his usual silliness (which it may have been) or if this was because he was uncomfortable? Mike, Jess and Stan weren't uncomfortable and were all for doing this. Wally wasn't participating because he had a family event and was sitting the whole edition out. Cedric appeared game but got tired of the stalling and the joking and ended up bailing. (I don't blame him.)

This should have been a really easy edition.

Why did it fall apart?

I don't know. I know this happens on other topics as well so it would be simplistic just to say it was because of the LGBTQ topic.

But, whatever the reason, I found it personally disappointing.

  

Bob Dylan's 80 best songs

Singer-songwriter Bob Dylan turned 80 today.  For that reason, we offer our pick of his 80 best songs.




1) "Subterranean Homesick Blues"

2) "Blowing in the Wind"

3) "Knocking On Heaven's Door"

4) "Murder Most Foul"

5) "Rainy Day Women #12 & 35"

6) "Like a Rolling Stone"

7) "It's All Over Now, Baby Blue"

8) "A Hard Rain's a-Gonna Fall"

9) "Don't Think Twice, It's Alright"

10) "Just Like A Woman"

11) "I Want You"

12) "Mr. Tambourine Man"

13) "Shelter From The Storm"

14) "Not Dark Yet"

15) "Hurricane"

16) "Jokerman"

17) "Queen Jane Approximately"

18) "Driftin' Too Far From Shore"

19) "Boots of Spanish Leather"

20) "Tangled Up In Blue"

21) "Band of the Hand"

22) "Masters of War"

23) "It Ain't Me Babe"

24) "Brownsville Girl"

25) "It's Alright Ma (I'm Only Bleeding)"

26) "I Don't Believe You (She Acts Like We Never Met)"

27) "With God On Our Side"

28) "Maybe Someday"

29) "License To Kill"

30) "Dreamin' Of You"

31) "Girl from the North Country"

32) "I Contain Multitudes"

33) "All I Really Want To Do"

34) "Ballad of a Thin Man"

35) "Tonight I'll Be Staying Here with You"

36) "Most of the Time"

37) "Motorpsycho Nitemare"

38) "Ballad in Plain D"

39) "Gotta Serve Somebody"

40) "Tight Connection To My Heart"

41) "Stuck Inside of Mobil with the Memphis Blues Again"

42) "Under Your Spell"

43) "Can't Wait"

44) "If You Ever Go To Houston"

45) "I Contain Multitudes"

46) "Sad Eyed Lady of the Lowlands"

47) "Changing of the Guards"

48) "Forever Young"

49) "I Threw It All Away"

50) "Leopard-Skin Pill-Box Hat"

51) "My Back Pages"

52) "Watching The River Flow"

53) "All Along The Watchtower"

54) "Maggie's Farm"

55) "I've Made Up My Mind To Give Myself To You"

56) "Visions of Johanna"

57) "Early Roman Kings"

58) "When The Deal Goes Down"

59) "Went To See The Gypsy"

60) "Crossing the Rubicon"

61) "Dear Landlord"

62) "Mother of Muses"

63) "Isis"

64) "False Prophet"

65) "Sweetheart Like You"

66) "Buckets of Rain"

67) "It takes A Lot To Laugh, It Takes A Train To Cry"

68) "The Man In Me"

69) "My Own Version Of You"

70) "I Dreamed I Saw St. Augustine"

72) "Seeing The Real You At Last"

73) "Cat's In The Well"

74) "Highlands"

75) "Goodbye Jimmy Reed"

76) "Delia"

77) "High Water (For Charley Patton)"

78) "Emotionally Yours"

79) "I Feel A Change Coming On"

80) "Dark Eyes"





KINDLE UNLIMITED's gay erotica (Ty)

 Gay erotica?  Just a fancy word for porn?


Maybe so, maybe so.  I visit sites like NIFTY.ORG and GAY SPIRAL STORIES for reads as does my husband.  


What do we think about KINDLE UNLIMITED with regards to erotic stories?


Free reading -- if you pay your monthly fee?  That sounds about right.  The bulk of the gay erotica is just not worth paying for.  There's not much creativity that goes into it.  Some stories are poorly rewritten hetero erotica -- so badly rewritten that they will get names wrong in a paragraph or genders.  


We've probably read 60 offerings this year.  Only ten are worth recommending:

 

1) Noah Clark's BECOMING MY BEST FRIEND'S PET


2) Jack Wolfman's MPREG THE ALPHA MALE


3) Alex Andreas' MY GAY SERVANT: FROM HUSBAND TO SUBMISSIVE PLAYTHING


4) Keegan Kennedy's WHO WEARS THE PANTS IN THE FAMILY?


5) M Stonehouse's PLEASING PATRICK


6) Jack Brighton's ENSLAVING JAKE


7) Abby Kypner's DON'T TELL MY GIRLFRIEND!

 

8) Riley Hart's JARED'S EVOLUTION


9) Kyle Cicero's MASTERFUL MEN OF COLOR


10) Harry Hawkings' SPANKING THE BAD BOY




KINDLE UNLIMITED (Kat, Ava and C.I.)

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In 2018, community sites took turns covering a book every week.  You can see "In 2018, we read books" to review that coverage.  We didn't want to repeat ourselves in 2019 or 2020.  So when Marcia came up with a way to cover books but with a twist, we were all for it.  Marcia's idea was for us to digital books -- we're largely a printed text crowd -- and to use AMAZON's KINDLE UNLIMITED.  So for 2021, we'll be doing a book a week and trying to just use KINDLE UNLIMITED. This week, we're talking with Kat about her "ERROL FLYNN: THE QUEST FOR AN OSCAR."

 

 Okay, so you liked the book by James Turiello?

 

Kat: I did.  I would recommend it.  However . . .

 

Yeah, we sensed a however in your coverage.

 

Kat: Not about the book.  But about AMAZON's choices.  I'm about to start a Janis Joplin book.  After that, I may be done.  The offerings?  There's just not enough to interest me.  

 

Not enough offered?  Not enough changes and updating?

 

Kat: All of it.  These are the same books that were offered when I started paying at the end of December.  Actually, at the end of January.  I got the first month for free.  I need more choices and I'm just not getting them from AMAZON.

 

So at this point, you'd recommend the service or not?

 

Kat: Big thumbs down from me.  That could change if the selections are updated before the end of the year.  If not, I'm a one year only subscriber to KINDLE UNLIMITED.

 

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"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Kat, Ava and C.I.)"

 

"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Betty, Ava and C.I.)


"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Stan, Ava and C.I.)

 

"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Betty, Ava and C.I.)"


"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Isaiah, Ava and C.I.)"

"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Elaine, Dona, Ava and C.I.)"


"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Mike, Ava and C.I.)"

"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Trina, Ava and C.I.)"

"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Stan, Ava and C.I.)"

"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Marcia, Ava and C.I.)"

"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Kat, Ava and C.I.)"

"KINDLE UNLIMITED (Rebecca, Ava and C.I.)"

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tweet of the week

From Nora Barrows-Friedman:

 

 

“Israel’s latest violent onslaught against Palestinians underscores the importance of advocacy for Palestinian human rights. By standing up against this illegal antiBDS law, Abby Martin ensures that all Americans have the freedom to stand up for Palestine"

 

 

 

Books

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In 2021, we'll be covering digital books.  So far this year, the coverage includes:

 

 

Kat's "ERROL FLYNN: THE QUEST FOR AN OSCAR"

Ty's "KINDLE UNLIMITED's gay erotica (Ty)"

 

Kat's "HEARTBREAKER: TWO MONTHS WITH JUDY"

 

Betty's "THE COLOR PURPLE"

 

Stan's "GOODBYE NATALIE, GOODBYE SPLENDOUR"


Betty's ""Kim Berry and Andrea Williams' DIAMONDS AND CURLZ""


Isaiah's "Marco Bonafede's WORDLESS COMICS"


Dona's "A SPY IN THE HOUSE OF ANAIS NIN (Dona)"


Elaine's "JOAN: FORTY YEARS OF LIFE, LOSS, AND FRIENDSHIP WI..."


Rebecca's "the mommie dearest diary: carol ann tells all"


Kat's "How Mabel Normand's many scandals (at least five) destroyed her career"

 

Marcia's "Paul Jay's bad Gore Vidal 'book'"

 

Stan's "Adrienne Barbeau's bad book THERE ARE WORSE THINGS I COULD DO"

 

Trina's "Mexican Casserole and a book in the Kitchen"

 

 Mike's "Book review CONVERSATIONS WITH CAPOTE"

 

 

 

 

 

 

This edition's playlist

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1) Nick Jonas' SPACEMAN.

 

2) Nick Jonas' LAST YEAR WAS COMPLICATED.

 

3) Aretha Franklin's WHO'S ZOOMIN' WHO?

 

 

 

4) Aretha Franklin's YOUNG, GIFTED & BLACK.


5) Harry Style's FINE LINE.  


6) Cher's STARS.

 

7) Cher's HEART OF STONE.

 

8)  Ashford & Simpson's HIGH RISE.

 

 

 

9)  Bob Dylan's ROUGH AND ROWDY WAYS.




10) Dionne Warwick's SHE'S BACK.

 

 

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